
Reach for this book when your child is facing a major transition, such as starting middle school or feeling the distance of a growing friendship. It is a dual perspective story about Ana and Katie, two best friends who feel like they are drifting apart as they enter different worlds. The book gently explores themes of adoption, secret family history, and the anxiety of social change. It is ideal for ages 8 to 12. Parents will appreciate how it validates the intense emotions of pre-adolescence while providing a hopeful roadmap for maintaining deep connections through honesty and creativity.
The book handles adoption and birth-parent curiosity with a secular, realistic, and highly sensitive lens. It also touches on parental abandonment (Katie's father) and the anxiety of social hierarchy. The resolution is grounded and hopeful, focusing on communication rather than magical fixes.
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Sign in to write a reviewA 10 or 11-year-old girl who feels like she is 'the one left behind' while her peers are changing, or an adopted child beginning to ask questions about their biological origins.
Read the scenes involving Ana's research into her Russian heritage to be prepared for questions about adoption and 'forever families.' A parent might notice their child becoming unusually withdrawn about school or see them obsessively clinging to old hobbies and toys as a defense mechanism against growing up.
Younger readers will focus on the 'BFF' drama and the fun of the crafting elements. Older readers will resonate more with the existential weight of changing identities and the complexity of family secrets.
Unlike many 'middle school transition' books that focus on bullying, this one focuses on the internal, quiet grief of changing friendship dynamics and the beauty of tangible, creative connections.
The story alternates between the voices of Ana and Katie, two lifelong best friends entering the sixth grade. Ana is dealing with a move to a new school and a growing curiosity about her birth parents in Russia, while Katie is struggling with her father's absence and a deep fear that Ana is outgrowing their friendship. They communicate through letters and symbolic paper chains as they navigate their changing identities.
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