
Reach for this book when your teenager is grappling with the tension between wanting to fit in and needing to be seen for who they truly are. It is a vital resource for families navigating a new school environment or the complexities of gender identity, particularly within the world of competitive sports. The story follows Spencer, a transgender boy who starts at a new school where he is 'passing' as cisgender, only to face a crisis when a discriminatory law threatens his spot on the soccer team. This is a nuanced exploration of justice, the weight of secrets, and the bravery required to stand up for one's rights. It offers a hopeful roadmap for parents supporting a child's journey toward authenticity while highlighting the importance of supportive community and family bonds.
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Sign in to write a reviewSweet, age-appropriate romance including kissing.
Occasional realistic teen profanity.
The book addresses gender identity, transphobia, and discriminatory legislation directly and realistically. The approach is secular and contemporary. While it depicts the pain of exclusion, the resolution is empowering and hopeful, focusing on grassroots activism and self-acceptance.
A high schooler who feels like they are living a double life or who loves sports but feels like the culture of the locker room doesn't have space for their identity. It is perfect for a student interested in social justice and civil rights.
Parents should be aware of scenes involving transphobic bullying (flashbacks) and some mild teenage partying. It is helpful to be familiar with current real-world debates regarding trans youth in sports to provide context. A parent might notice their child becoming withdrawn regarding school activities or see them hesitating to join a sports team due to fear of 'not fitting in' or administrative hurdles.
Younger teens (12-14) will focus on the 'new kid' dynamics and the romance, while older teens (15-18) will likely resonate more with the legal battle, the nuances of 'passing,' and the intersection of faith and identity in Spencer's boyfriend's life.
Unlike many trans stories that focus solely on the medical transition, this book focuses on the joy of the sport and the specific legal/social barriers to participation, while featuring a supportive, loving family.
Spencer Harris is a talented soccer player who transfers to a private school for a fresh start after experiencing transphobic bullying at his old school. At his new school, he is 'stealth,' meaning his peers and coach do not know he is transgender. He finds friendship, a budding romance with a teammate named Justice, and a spot on the varsity team. However, a state law requiring birth certificates for athletes puts his ability to play at risk, forcing Spencer to decide whether to stay quiet or fight for his right to play as his true self.
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