
A parent might reach for this book when their child is missing a deployed parent or trying to understand a difficult family history involving war or immigration. Sumi waits anxiously for the train that will bring her mother, a U.S. Army soldier, home. To comfort her, Sumi's grandmother shares the story of her own childhood escape from Seoul during the Korean War. This gentle, poignant book weaves together past and present, exploring themes of anxiety, family love, and resilience. It's a powerful and reassuring story for children ages 7 to 10 that validates their feelings of worry while framing them within a larger family legacy of strength and survival.
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Sign in to write a reviewA grandmother's story involves fleeing a war zone as a child, with danger and uncertainty.
The book addresses the trauma of war refugees and family separation. The approach is gentle, framed as a historical story told by a loving grandmother. The descriptions of war are not graphic but convey fear and uncertainty (e.g., hiding, a sky "red with fire"). The perspective is secular. The resolution is hopeful: the grandmother's family reached safety, and the book ends with the strong, certain hope of the mother's imminent and safe return.
An 8-year-old in a military family who is struggling with the anxiety of a parent's deployment. It's also perfect for a third- or fourth-grade Korean-American child exploring their heritage and learning about the impact of the Korean War on their family's story.
Parents should be prepared to discuss what war is in simple terms. The scenes of the family fleeing and crowding onto the train, particularly when the grandmother's little brother is nearly left behind, may be upsetting for sensitive children. Previewing these pages can help a parent frame the conversation. The book provides a natural entry point to talking about family history and resilience. A parent hears their child repeatedly ask, "When is Mom/Dad coming home?" or sees them looking sad and withdrawn when they see other families together. The child might be expressing fears about their deployed parent's safety.
A 7-year-old will connect most with the surface story: Sumi misses her mom, and her grandmother tells a scary but ultimately safe story. An older child, around 9 or 10, will better grasp the historical context, the parallel structure of the two narratives, and the deeper theme of inherited strength.
This book uniquely connects a contemporary American military family experience with a specific, historical refugee story (the Korean War). By using intergenerational storytelling, it reframes the child's present-day anxiety as part of a larger family legacy of perseverance and hope, which is a more nuanced approach than most books about deployment.
A young Korean-American girl, Sumi, waits with her father and grandmother for her mother to return home from military service. The sound of the trains passing makes her anxious. To help pass the time and connect with her granddaughter, the grandmother (Halmoni) recounts the story of her family's frantic escape from war-torn Seoul as a child, fleeing south on a crowded "peacebound train." The parallel stories of waiting for a loved one's safe return bridge the two generations.
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