How does Pamela change throughout the story?

This is a discussion prompt for Pieface and Daphne by Lila Perl. Use it to spark conversation with your child after reading.

What does it mean to be self-centered, and how can we be more empathetic towards others?

This is a discussion prompt for Pieface and Daphne by Lila Perl. Use it to spark conversation with your child after reading.

What do you think about the shopping bag lady? How would you feel if you met someone like her?

This is a discussion prompt for Pieface and Daphne by Lila Perl. Use it to spark conversation with your child after reading.

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Pieface and Daphne

Name: Pieface and Daphne
ISBN: 9780395291054

by Lila Perl

Self-centered Pamela gains a new perspective on life and kindness when she and her visiting cousin Daphne encounter a mysterious local woman.

About This Book

When Daphne comes to visit Pamela and the two cousins become involved with a shopping bag lady, Pamela becomes less self-centered.

Concepts

Self-Confidence & Identity Empathy & Kindness Love & Family Friendship & Loyalty Resilience & Perseverance Loneliness & Belonging Making Friends Growing Up Being Different Family & Siblings Friendship & Social

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Wonderlit Review

Lila Perl's "Pieface and Daphne" is a gentle chapter book exploring themes of personal growth and empathy. The story follows Pamela, who begins as a self-centered child, and her transformation is sparked by the arrival of her cousin Daphne and their shared encounter with a shopping bag lady. The book subtly handles the topic of homelessness or poverty through the character of the shopping bag lady, providing an opportunity for young readers to consider different life circumstances. The emotional arc is one of awakening and increasing compassion, moving from self-focus to an understanding of others. This book is ideal for children who are beginning to understand social dynamics and the importance of kindness. A parent might reach for this when their child is showing signs of self-centeredness, or when they want to open a conversation about empathy and helping others in the community. Younger readers (4-7) would enjoy it as a read-aloud, focusing on the character interactions, while older readers (8-11) can independently engage with Pamela's internal journey and the social themes.