
Reach for this book when your child comes home feeling wounded by a comment about their appearance, clothes, or quirks. It is an essential tool for navigating the pain of social rejection and the impulse to hide away when others are unkind. The story follows Pinduli, a young hyena who tries to change her look after being teased, only to discover that her critics are actually nursing their own insecurities. Janell Cannon uses the misunderstood hyena to model how empathy can break a cycle of cruelty. While the vibrant illustrations of the African savannah will captivate children ages 4 to 9, the heart of the book lies in its clever resolution. It moves beyond a simple lesson on kindness to show children that they have the power to transform a negative social environment through wit and forgiveness.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe other animals are briefly frightened by Pinduli's 'ghostly' appearance in the dust.
The book deals with verbal bullying and body shaming. The approach is metaphorical, using animal traits to represent human insecurities. The resolution is highly hopeful and secular, focusing on social reconciliation and the power of an apology.
An elementary student who is sensitive to peer feedback or has recently experienced 'mean girl' or 'tough guy' behavior at school. It is perfect for the child who feels like an outsider because of how they look.
Read the backmatter first. It provides fascinating scientific context about hyenas that can help pivot a sad conversation into a STEM-based learning moment about how 'different' features are actually survival adaptations. A parent might choose this after hearing their child say, 'I hate my [hair/nose/ears],' or 'The kids at school said I look weird.'
Younger children (4-6) will focus on the 'ghost' trick and the colorful animals. Older children (7-9) will better grasp the 'hurt people hurt people' subtext, recognizing that the Lion was only mean because he was teased first.
Unlike many 'be yourself' books that focus solely on the victim's perspective, Pinduli uniquely illustrates the chain reaction of bullying, showing how one unkind word can travel through a whole community until someone chooses to stop it.
Pinduli is a young striped hyena who is insulted by a dog, a lion, and a zebra regarding her physical features. Distraught, she rolls in white dust to disguise herself, inadvertently appearing as a 'Great Spirit.' When the other animals encounter her, they confess that their mean comments to Pinduli were actually projections of their own insecurities about being teased. Pinduli uses this role to demand they make amends, leading to a feast and a new era of harmony.
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