Please is a Good Word to Say

Barbara M. Joosse's "Please is a Good Word to Say" is a straightforward and gentle guide to basic etiquette for young readers. The book features Harriet, a character who provides clear, practical examples of how to use polite words and expressions in various social contexts, from asking for something to expressing gratitude. It directly addresses the topic of social behavior, emphasizing the positive impact of politeness on interactions rather than focusing on the negative consequences of rudeness. The emotional arc is consistently gentle and instructive, aiming to empower children with social tools that lead to a sense of competence and more positive social outcomes. This book is specifically for children who are beginning to navigate social situations, perhaps struggling to remember polite phrases, or those who would benefit from explicit modeling of good manners. It's also a wonderful resource for children who are naturally empathetic and want to understand how to make others feel good. A parent might reach for this book when their child is starting school or daycare, having frequent social interactions, or when they want to proactively reinforce basic manners like saying "please" and "thank you." There are no sensitive scenes requiring preview; instead, parents can read it with their child and then practice the examples together in real-life situations. Younger children (ages 4-6) will easily grasp the fundamental concepts of using "please" and "thank you," while older children (ages 7-11) may appreciate the nuances of different social situations and how politeness contributes to smoother interactions and stronger friendships. Its direct, example-driven approach through a relatable character like Harriet makes it particularly accessible and practical, setting it apart from books that might offer a more abstract list of rules.