
Reach for this book when your child is struggling to vocalize the 'big' feelings of frustration that often lead to outbursts or withdrawal. It provides a unique window into how other children perceive and process anger through the accessible medium of poetry. This collection normalizes the experience of feeling mad, showing kids that their emotions are valid and shared by their peers. By reading these raw and honest verses, children in the 8 to 12 age range can find the vocabulary they need to express themselves. Parents will find it a helpful tool for opening up low pressure conversations about temperament and healthy outlets for emotional energy. It moves away from lecturing about behavior and instead invites empathy and self-reflection.
The book deals with social frustration and interpersonal conflict. The approach is direct and secular. While the poems describe intense feelings, the overall resolution is realistic and hopeful, emphasizing that anger is a temporary state that can be managed.
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Sign in to write a reviewA 9 or 10-year-old who feels misunderstood or 'labels' themselves as a 'bad kid' because they have a short fuse. It is perfect for the child who enjoys creative writing but struggles with traditional self-help books.
Parents should be prepared for some 'raw' language regarding hating certain situations or feeling 'mean.' It is best read together or in segments so the parent can bridge the gap between the poem and the child's own life. A parent might reach for this after a particularly loud argument between siblings or after a teacher mentions the child had a frustrated outburst in class.
Younger children (ages 8-9) will relate to the physical descriptions of anger, like 'feeling hot' or 'wanting to scream.' Older children (ages 11-12) will better appreciate the metaphors and the social nuances of why the poets felt angry in the first place.
Unlike most books on anger written by adults or psychologists, this book features the authentic voices of peers. This peer-to-peer connection removes the 'preachy' tone often found in emotional regulation literature.
This is a curated collection of poetry written by American children ranging from elementary to middle school ages. The verses explore the various triggers for anger, such as sibling rivalry, school pressures, and feelings of injustice, as well as the physical sensations and eventual cooling down of the emotion.
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