Promises to Keep

Name: Promises to Keep
ISBN: 9780517581865

For the child who longs to break into a new social circle or understands the complexities of middle school friendships and finding where they belong.

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About This Book

A parent might reach for this book when their middle schooler is struggling with feelings of being an outsider or is fixated on becoming popular. The story follows eighth-grader Patty Dillman, who makes a New Year's resolution to befriend the wealthy and popular Penni Pendleton. This seemingly simple goal sends Patty on an emotional journey of self-discovery, forcing her to confront jealousy, insecurity, and the true meaning of friendship. This gentle, character-driven novel is perfect for ages 11-14, normalizing the common anxieties of navigating middle school social hierarchies. It’s a wonderful choice for opening conversations about self-worth, authenticity, and what makes a real, lasting friendship.

Making Friends School Life Friendship & Social Loneliness & Belonging Friendship & Loyalty Self-Confidence & Identity Peer Pressure Jealousy & Comparison

What Parents Should Know

Sad ThemesMild

Characters experience common middle school anxieties like loneliness, jealousy, and feelings of inadequacy.

Sensitive Topics

The book's primary sensitive topic is socioeconomic disparity. This is handled directly and realistically through Patty's internal monologue and her observations of Penni's life versus her own. The approach is secular. The resolution is both hopeful and realistic, as Patty doesn't magically become popular but instead achieves a more valuable form of self-acceptance and appreciation for her authentic relationships.