
A parent might reach for this book when their child has been pushed, shoved, or physically intimidated by a peer and needs a clear, direct plan of action. This nonfiction guide explicitly defines physical bullying and provides a simple, memorable three-step strategy: say 'stop' in a strong voice, walk away, and tell a trusted adult. It addresses the child being bullied, the bully, and the bystander, empowering all children to contribute to a safer environment. Its straightforward, skill-building approach is perfect for early elementary schoolers who benefit from concrete instructions over complex narratives.
The book's core topic is physical bullying. The approach is direct, secular, and practical. It does not depict severe violence but shows illustrations of pushing, tripping, and social exclusion. The resolution offered is hopeful and empowering, focusing on the child's agency to seek help from adults to resolve the situation safely.
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Sign in to write a reviewThis book is for an early elementary child (ages 6-8) who needs a concrete, step-by-step guide for dealing with a physical aggression issue. They may have been recently pushed, are afraid of a classmate at recess, or witnessed bullying and felt helpless. It's also useful for a child who has been identified as being too rough with peers and needs to understand the impact of their actions.
This book can be read cold; it requires no special preparation. Parents should be prepared to pause and discuss the prompts in the book and help their child identify their specific "trusted adults" at school and at home. Role-playing the three steps after reading is highly recommended. A parent hears, "So-and-so pushed me at recess today and I didn't know what to do." Or, a teacher calls to report a pushing incident. The parent is looking for a tool to role-play and practice a safe response with their child.
A 6-year-old will latch onto the three rules as a simple, easy-to-memorize formula. They will see the situations in a very black-and-white way. An 8 or 9-year-old will have a more nuanced understanding. They can engage more deeply with the section on being a bystander and may be able to reflect on the social dynamics that lead to bullying.
Unlike many books on bullying that are embedded in fictional stories, this is a direct, nonfiction 'how-to' guide. Its primary strength is the simplicity and clarity of its three-step plan. This makes the advice easy for a young, distressed child to recall and implement under pressure. It functions more like a social-emotional-learning manual than a storybook.
This is a nonfiction, instructional guide, not a narrative story. It directly defines physical bullying (pushing, shoving, tripping) and presents a clear, three-step action plan for children who experience it: 1. Say "stop" in a strong voice. 2. Walk away. 3. Tell a trusted adult. The book uses simple language and diverse, realistic illustrations of school scenarios to reinforce these concepts. It also includes sections for children who might be bullying others and for bystanders, encouraging them to get help rather than just watch.
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