
Reach for this book when your teenager feels like they are the only person who sees the absurdity of the adults in their life, or when your family is navigating a major shift like a parental separation. It is a sharp, witty, and deeply relatable look at Marshall, an African American teen trying to find his footing while his mother moves in and out of the house and his father finds contentment in a job managing the local dump. Through Marshall's eyes, readers explore the complexities of loving parents who are deeply flawed and often unpredictable. It is best suited for older teens due to its mature, dry humor and realistic depiction of family instability. You would choose this because it validates the teenage experience of feeling like the only sane person in the room while offering a path toward empathy and self-assurance.
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Sign in to write a reviewOccasional strong language consistent with high school settings.
Adults behave irresponsibly, leaving the protagonist to manage his own emotional state.
The book deals with parental abandonment and marital instability in a very direct, secular, and unsentimental way. The resolution is realistic rather than perfectly happy, focusing on Marshall's growing independence and acceptance of his parents as they are.
A 15 or 16-year-old who feels like their parents are a mystery they can't solve. It is perfect for the student who uses humor as a defense mechanism and appreciates stories that don't sugarcoat the frustrations of family life.
Parents should be prepared for the depiction of a mother who leaves her family without much explanation. It is helpful to read cold, but be ready to discuss how people cope with disappointment in different ways. A parent might notice their teen becoming increasingly sarcastic or distant regarding family plans, perhaps expressing a 'why bother?' attitude toward a parent's inconsistent behavior.
Younger teens will focus on the school drama and the 'weirdness' of the parents. Older teens will resonate more with the internal struggle of wanting to be loyal to family while needing to separate from their dysfunction.
Unlike many YA novels that focus on tragic trauma, this book uses sharp, observational humor and a unique setting (the dump) to explore the 'ordinary' dysfunction of a middle-class family.
Marshall is a Black high schooler living in a small town where his father is the supervisor of the local landfill. The story follows Marshall's junior and senior years as he navigates his mother's frequent, unexplained disappearances and his father's stoic, eccentric personality. Alongside his personal life, he witnesses social shifts through his English teacher's Vietnam War protests, eventually learning that being 'right by my side' is about finding stability within oneself even when the adults are erratic.
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