
A parent would reach for this book when their child is navigating the tricky social dynamics of a first 'best friendship,' especially the jealousy and hurt feelings that arise when a third friend enters the picture. This early chapter book follows best buds Lily and Daisy, whose perfect two-person club is disrupted by a new girl, Francine. The story gently explores Lily’s feelings of being left out and how the friends learn to communicate and expand their circle. With its humor, relatable conflict, and supportive resolution, it's an excellent choice for a 6 to 8-year-old. It validates a child's big emotions and models a positive path toward resolving friendship problems.
None. The book deals with common social conflict (jealousy, exclusion) in a very gentle, direct, and secular way. The resolution is entirely hopeful and models positive conflict resolution skills like communication and apology.
A 6- or 7-year-old who is deeply invested in their primary friendship and is experiencing jealousy for the first time. This child may have come home from school upset that their "best friend" played with someone else at recess and needs language to understand their possessive feelings and a model for how to navigate them.
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Sign in to write a reviewNo prep is needed; the book can be read cold. The text and illustrations work together to make the emotional stakes clear and manageable. It's a perfect conversation starter that doesn't require any special framing. The parent hears, "She's not my best friend anymore!" or sees their child withdrawing after a perceived social slight on the playground. The child is struggling with the idea that their friend can have other friends.
A younger reader (age 6) will connect directly with Lily's feelings and the perceived injustice of being left out. An older reader (age 8) will still relate but may also have more empathy for Daisy's position of wanting to be kind to a new person. They are also more likely to appreciate the wordplay humor of "under frogs."
Leslie Patricelli's signature art style is the key differentiator. Her simple, bold-lined illustrations are incredibly expressive, conveying the characters' emotions with a clarity that young readers can instantly grasp. This visual emotional literacy, combined with gentle humor, sets it apart from more text-heavy or didactic books on the same topic.
Lily and Daisy are inseparable best friends with their own exclusive club. When a new girl, Francine, moves in, Daisy is excited to include her, leaving Lily feeling jealous and excluded. The conflict escalates through a series of misunderstandings typical of early elementary friendships. Ultimately, the girls talk through their hurt feelings, apologize, and decide to expand their club, learning that friendship isn't a limited resource. The title is a humorous running gag based on the girls mishearing the word "underdogs" as "under frogs."
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