
A parent might reach for this book when their child is struggling with social media oversharing or feeling overshadowed by a parent's online presence. Twelve-year-old Scarlett is mortified by her mother’s popular parenting blog, which details all her most embarrassing moments. She retreats from her friends and hobbies until a friendship with an elderly neighbor introduces her to the world of baking. This heartwarming story for ages 9-13 explores themes of privacy, identity, and the power of intergenerational friendship. It’s an excellent, gentle way to open a conversation about online boundaries and the importance of forging your own path, separate from family expectations.
The core sensitive topic is the parent-child conflict over "sharenting" and online privacy. The book addresses this modern issue directly and from the child's perspective. The resolution is hopeful, emphasizing communication and the setting of mutual boundaries. The story also gently touches on aging and loneliness through the character of Mrs. Simpson. The approach is entirely secular.
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Sign in to write a reviewThis book is perfect for a tween aged 10-13 who is beginning to crave more independence and privacy, especially one who feels misunderstood or overexposed by their parents (on social media or otherwise). It would also strongly appeal to kids who love baking, cooking shows, or stories about unlikely, intergenerational friendships.
No specific prep is needed; the book can be read cold. However, parents should be ready for it to spark a conversation about their own social media habits. It provides a perfect, low-stakes entry point for discussing family rules and boundaries regarding what is shared online. A parent overhears their child say, "Please don't post that! It's so embarrassing!" or notices their tween becoming more withdrawn and secretive, particularly after the parent has shared something about them online. The child may express frustration about not having control over their own story.
A younger reader (9-10) will enjoy the fun of the secret hobby, the excitement of the baking competition, and the sweet friendship story. An older reader (11-13) will connect more deeply with the core emotional conflict about privacy, online identity, and the struggle to be seen as an individual separate from one's family.
What makes this book unique is its direct and thoughtful exploration of "sharenting" from a child's point of view. While many middle-grade books deal with finding a passion or navigating friendships, this one tackles a uniquely 21st-century problem with nuance and heart, making it incredibly relevant for today's tweens.
Twelve-year-old Scarlett feels her life has been hijacked by her mother's incredibly popular, and revealing, parenting blog. Humiliated, she quits her hobbies and isolates herself from friends. Her life changes when she befriends her elderly neighbor, the reclusive Mrs. Simpson, and discovers a passion for baking. Together, they secretly enter a prestigious local baking competition, which allows Scarlett to build a new identity for herself, forge new connections, and ultimately confront her mother about her need for privacy.
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