About This Book
Reach for this book when your child seems caught up in the 'more, more, more' of modern life or is struggling with the pressure to be something extraordinary. It is a perfect antidote for the child who feels restless or dissatisfied with their daily routine, providing a calm space to explore the concept of enoughness. Selma is a gentle sheep whose life consists of simple tasks like eating grass, teaching her lambs, and chatting with her friend. Through a clever framing device involving a wise ram being interviewed by a fox, the story illustrates that true happiness isn't found in grand achievements, but in the peaceful repetition of a life well-lived. This book is developmentally appropriate for preschoolers through early elementary students, offering a secular, accessible introduction to mindfulness and contentment that helps ground children in the present moment.
What Parents Should Know
Sensitive Topics
The book is entirely secular and metaphorical. It avoids heavy trauma, focusing instead on the philosophical 'crisis' of existential contentment. It is deeply hopeful in its simplicity.
Ideal Reader
A 4 to 7-year-old child who may be experiencing 'fomo' (fear of missing out) or a child who thrives on routine but needs validation that their quiet life is meaningful.
Parent Prep
This book can be read cold. The minimalist illustrations by Jutta Bauer are as important as the text, so parents should be prepared to linger on the pages to let the quiet humor sink in. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child say 'I'm bored' despite having many toys, or if a child is expressing anxiety about 'being the best' at school or sports.
Age Experience
Younger children will enjoy the predictable routine of the sheep. Older children (and adults) will grasp the philosophical weight of Selma's choice to change nothing even if she were rich or had more time.
What Makes It Special
Unlike many books that celebrate 'being special' through unique talents, Selma celebrates 'being special' through the simple act of being content with an ordinary life.
Read plot summary
The story is framed as an interview between a fox and a wise ram named Moses. The fox asks what happiness is, and Moses tells the story of Selma. Selma is a sheep who follows a consistent daily routine: she eats grass, teaches her children, exercises, chats with her neighbor, and sleeps soundly. When asked what she would do if she had more time or won the lottery, her answer remains the same: she would continue her peaceful, fulfilling routine.
Discussion Prompts
1
Selma says she would do the exact same things even if she won the lottery. What are the parts of your day that you would never want to change?
2
Why do you think Selma spends time talking to her neighbor, Mrs. Meyer? How does talking to friends make a day better?
3
If you had 'extra time' like the fox asks about, would you do something brand new or just more of what you love?
4
Look at Selma's face while she eats her grass. How can you tell she is enjoying herself without her saying a word?
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