
Reach for this book when your child is feeling the weight of expectations or struggling with the pressure to fit a certain mold based on their appearance or peer group. It is particularly helpful for children who are naturally bubbly or optimistic but feel they need to suppress those traits to be taken seriously or to fit in with a more serious crowd. Through the story of Sheena, a hyena who chooses laughter over hunting and scavenging, the book explores the vital importance of staying true to one's own temperament. Appropriate for preschoolers and early elementary students, this story uses the natural characteristics of hyenas to deliver a secular, metaphorical message about self-confidence and joy. Parents will appreciate the rhythmic prose and the way it validates a child's unique spirit, proving that happiness is not just a feeling, but a brave choice that can inspire others to change their perspectives as well.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with identity and social expectations through a metaphorical animal lens. It is entirely secular and hopeful. The resolution is realistic in its emotional impact: Sheena doesn't change the whole world, but she changes her own experience and wins the respect of those around her by being authentic.
A 4 or 5-year-old child who is naturally spirited or 'the class clown' but has recently been told to 'settle down' or 'be more serious.' It's perfect for the child who needs to know their joy is a gift, not a distraction.
This book can be read cold. The rhyming structure makes it a smooth read-aloud, though parents should be prepared to do their best 'hyena laugh' to engage the child. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child say, 'I have to act like [Friend's Name] so they will like me,' or if a teacher mentions the child is 'too silly' in a way that has made the child feel ashamed.
Younger children (3-4) will enjoy the animal sounds and the simple contrast between 'scary' and 'happy.' Older children (6-7) will better grasp the deeper message about the social courage required to go against the grain of a group.
Unlike many 'be yourself' books that focus on physical differences, this focuses on temperament. It specifically validates the 'happy' child in a world that often demands stoicism or conformity.
Sheena is a hyena living in the wild who does not fit the typical 'mean scavenger' stereotype of her species. While her peers focus on hunting and maintaining a fierce reputation, Sheena is filled with an irrepressible sense of joy and laughter. The story follows her journey as she navigates the social pressure to be scary, eventually deciding that her happiness is her greatest strength. She leads by example, showing her community that there is room for kindness and playfulness even in the wild.
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