
Reach for this book when your child feels like they do not fit the traditional mold of being 'good' or 'pretty' and needs to see that there is joy in being exactly who they are. While many stories focus on characters changing themselves to fit in, William Steig's classic celebrates a protagonist who is unapologetically repulsive, finding happiness not by transforming into a prince, but by finding a partner who loves his warts and all. It is a brilliant subversion of the 'happily ever after' trope. The story follows Shrek, a hideous monster who leaves home to seek his fortune. Along his journey, he encounters various creatures and a terrifying dragon, eventually fulfilling a prophecy by marrying a princess who is just as ugly as he is. With sophisticated vocabulary and absurdist humor, the book explores themes of self-esteem and radical self-acceptance. It is ideal for children ages 4 to 10, particularly those who appreciate silly, slightly gross humor and the freedom of being themselves.
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Sign in to write a reviewShrek enjoys being 'bad' and 'scary,' which subverts typical moral lessons.
Shrek faces a dragon and a lightning storm, but he remains unfazed.
The book deals with identity and appearance through a purely metaphorical and absurdist lens. It subverts the idea that 'ugly' is 'bad.' There is mild cartoonish violence (Shrek's parents kicking him out) and some scary imagery, but the resolution is joyful and affirming in its own unique way.
A child who enjoys 'gross-out' humor or an elementary student who feels pressured to be 'perfect' and needs a comedic release from social expectations. It is also perfect for the budding wordsmith who loves rich, unusual language.
Read this cold. Steig's language is rhythmic and delicious. Note that the book is much more surreal and linguistically complex than the movie franchise it inspired. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child say, 'I'm not pretty enough,' or after seeing their child struggle to fit in with a peer group that demands conformity.
Younger children (4-6) will love the physical comedy and the gross descriptions. Older children (7-10) will appreciate the irony, the sophisticated vocabulary (like 'festering' or 'putrid'), and the satire of traditional fairy tales.
Most books about being 'different' end with the character being accepted by the mainstream. Shrek is unique because he never seeks mainstream approval: he finds happiness by finding his own community and staying true to his repulsive self.
Shrek is a repulsive green monster who is kicked out of his parents' swamp to find his way in the world. He encounters a witch who tells his fortune, outsmarts a dragon, and eventually finds a princess who is his perfect, hideous match. They marry and live 'horribly' ever after.
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