
Reach for this book when your teen is processing a major life transition, witnessing the impact of a serious injury on a loved one, or questioning how their identity is shaped by the expectations of others. It is a powerful resource for families navigating the complex emotions of a returning veteran or anyone facing a long road to physical and cognitive recovery. The story follows Ben, a talented young man who enlists in the army and returns from Iraq with a traumatic brain injury. As Ben struggles to remember his own name and history, the narrative shifts between his perspective and those of his family and friends. This multi-perspective approach highlights themes of resilience, the burden of expectations, and the unconditional nature of love. While the subject matter is intense, it offers a realistic and ultimately hopeful look at finding a new sense of self after a devastating loss.
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Sign in to write a reviewHeavy themes of memory loss, lost potential, and the strain of disability on families.
Occasional realistic teen and military profanity.
The book deals directly and realistically with physical and cognitive disability resulting from combat. The approach is secular and unflinching, depicting the frustration and slow pace of rehabilitation. The resolution is realistic rather than miraculous, suggesting a 'new normal' rather than a complete return to his former self.
A mature middle or high schooler who is interested in the reality of military service or who is close to someone dealing with a life-changing medical diagnosis. It is perfect for a reader who appreciates character-driven stories with deep emotional stakes.
Parents should be aware of the descriptions of the explosion and the clinical details of Ben's injury. The scene of the IED blast is brief but visceral. A parent might see their teen struggling with the 'perfection trap' or, more specifically, a teen who is reeling from the news of a family member's injury or deployment. It is for the moment a child asks, 'Will they ever be the same?'
Younger teens will focus on the external plot of the war and the injury. Older teens will resonate more with the existential themes of identity, the pressure to succeed, and the changing dynamics of high school relationships.
Unlike many war books that focus on combat, this story focuses on the 'after.' The inclusion of Ben's brother, who has autism, adds a unique layer to the family's understanding of neurodiversity and worth.
Ben Wolf is the 'golden boy' of his high school, a talented actor and athlete who joins the Army after graduation. When an IED explosion in Iraq leaves him with a traumatic brain injury (TBI), he returns home a different person. The story tracks his grueling recovery and the impact his injury has on his girlfriend, his best friend, and his brother, who has autism. It is a journey of identity lost and slowly, painfully, reconstructed.
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