
Reach for this book when your teen is struggling with the weight of social comparison or seems to be hiding behind a curated, 'perfect' version of themselves online. This honest story follows Leah, a girl who feels invisible because of her weight and financial status, leading her to assume a false identity to connect with an older man. It dives deep into themes of body image, the ethics of digital deception, and the intense desire to be someone else when your own life feels lacking. Parents will appreciate the way it addresses the root causes of 'catfishing' through a lens of empathy rather than just judgment. It is best suited for older teens (14 plus) due to its mature exploration of self worth and complex social choices.
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Sign in to write a reviewHeavy themes of self-loathing, body dysmorphia, and financial stress.
A complex, deceptive relationship with an older male character.
Occasional realistic teen profanity.
The book deals directly with body image, class-based resentment, and digital deception. The 'catfishing' element involves an older man, though the focus remains on Leah's internal identity crisis. The approach is realistic and gritty, concluding with an ambiguous but hopeful sense of self-acceptance rather than a neat, happy ending.
A high schooler who feels they are 'the sidekick' in their own life. This is for the teen who feels defined by their physical appearance or their family's bank account and wonders if they would be more lovable if they were 'someone else.'
Parents should be aware of the 'catfishing' plotline and some mature themes regarding online safety and relationships with older individuals. It is best to discuss the dangers of adult contact online alongside the book's emotional themes. A parent might notice their teen becoming secretive about their phone, making disparaging comments about their own body, or expressing intense jealousy toward a 'perfect' friend.
Younger teens may focus on the drama of the lie, while older teens will likely resonate more with the nuanced themes of classism and the crushing pressure of aesthetic standards.
Unlike many 'body positive' books that focus on a quick journey to self-love, this story lingers in the discomfort of envy and the lengths one might go to to escape their own skin.
Leah is a studious, overweight high schooler who feels overlooked by her peers and burdened by her family's financial struggles. To escape her reality, she starts a phone and digital relationship with an older man named Clay, but she uses the photos and persona of her thin, popular, and wealthy friend, Kristy. As the lie grows, Leah must navigate the fallout of her deception, the shifting dynamics of her real-world friendships, and her own self-loathing.
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