
Reach for this book when your preteen is grappling with the silent weight of a parent's absence or the confusing shift from childhood play to interest in boys. It follows twelve-year-old Julia as she spends the summer with her cousin Eliza while her mother serves as a nurse in Iraq. While the girls have always been inseparable, the arrival of a neighborhood boy and the constant, low-grade hum of anxiety over her mother's safety create a wedge between them. This story is an ideal choice for families navigating military deployment or for children feeling 'left behind' as their peers begin to focus on dating and social status. It offers a sensitive, realistic look at how growing up often means balancing deep-seated worries with the messy, evolving nature of friendship.
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Sign in to write a reviewPersistent anxiety regarding the potential death of a mother in a war zone.
The book deals directly with the anxiety of military deployment and the threat of parental death. The approach is realistic and secular, focusing on the internal emotional life of the child left behind. The resolution is hopeful but grounded, emphasizing resilience rather than a 'happily ever after' guarantee.
A 10 to 12-year-old girl who feels like she is being forced to grow up too fast, particularly those in military families or those who feel 'socially behind' their peers.
Parents should be aware of the historical statistics regarding female casualties in war included in the book, as these may heighten anxiety for a sensitive child. No specific scene requires a skip, but the historical context may require discussion. A parent might see their child withdrawing from a long-time best friend or showing obsessive interest in news reports about global conflicts.
Younger readers (9-10) will focus on the feeling of being left out of the 'boy' conversation. Older readers (11-13) will more deeply feel the existential dread of Julia's mother being in a combat zone.
Baskin uniquely weaves historical non-fiction elements about women in military history into a contemporary coming-of-age story, elevating the personal stakes to a global, historical level.
Julia is staying with her cousin and best friend, Eliza, for the summer because her mother, a nurse in the National Guard, has been deployed to Iraq. The girls have a rich history of imaginative play, but this summer is different. Eliza becomes interested in a boy named Toby, leaving Julia feeling isolated and jealous. Interspersed with the narrative are historical facts about women in war, providing a scholarly backdrop to Julia's personal anxiety.
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