
A parent might reach for this book when their teen is questioning a long-standing family narrative or feels a pull to connect with an estranged relative. It speaks directly to the moment a young person's sense of justice begins to challenge the rules set by their parents. Fifteen-year-old Ellen has always been told her grandmother, Eva, is crazy and was forbidden to see her. When she secretly seeks Eva out, she discovers not a dangerous woman, but a gifted musician suffering from profound grief and neglect. The book explores themes of empathy, family secrets, mental health, and the moral courage it takes to help someone, even when it means defying your own family. It’s a thoughtful choice for teens aged 13-17 who are ready for a nuanced story about the complexities of love, loss, and doing the right thing.
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The book deals directly with mental illness (presenting as severe depression and possible agoraphobia) and the neglect of an elderly person. The death of Ellen's father is a past event, but the grief and blame surrounding it are central to the plot. The approach is secular and realistic. The resolution is hopeful but not perfect; Eva begins to receive professional help and her situation improves, but the core family conflicts are not magically erased, reflecting a more true-to-life outcome.
A thoughtful, empathetic teen, aged 13-16, who is grappling with complex family dynamics. It is perfect for a reader who suspects an adult in their life is being unfairly judged, or who feels trapped by a "family secret" and is developing their own moral compass separate from their parents'.
Parents should be prepared for conversations about mental illness, grief, and the ways families can hurt each other. The descriptions of Eva's neglect and living conditions may be upsetting for some readers. The book can be read cold, but a parent pre-reading to understand the nuanced portrayal of the mother's motivations could lead to richer discussions. A parent might observe their teen questioning a family rule about an estranged relative, saying things like, "Why are we not allowed to see Grandma?" or "That doesn't sound fair." The trigger is the child's dawning awareness of adult fallibility and complex family histories.
A younger reader (13-14) will likely connect with the mystery, the forbidden nature of Ellen's quest, and her conflict with her mother. An older teen (15-17) will appreciate the deeper themes of intergenerational trauma, the complexity of mental health, and Ellen's journey toward moral autonomy.
Published in 1982, this book's portrayal of mental health is notable for its compassion, lacking modern clinical labels but focusing on the human experience. Unlike many YA novels, its central relationship is not romantic but a powerful, intergenerational bond between a granddaughter and grandmother. It is a quiet, character-driven novel about the courage of compassion.
Fifteen-year-old Ellen defies her mother's strict ban on contacting her paternal grandmother, Eva. Her mother blames Eva, a once-brilliant musician, for her husband's death and insists she is mentally unstable. Ellen discovers Eva living in squalor and isolation, not insane but deeply depressed and neglected. Determined to help, Ellen secretly befriends Eva, cleans her home, and tries to reconnect her with the world and her music, all while navigating her mother's anger and the town's gossip to uncover long-buried family secrets.
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