
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is beginning to grapple with the heavy weight of family secrets and the confusing rush of first love. It is a story about Phil, a boy growing up in a bohemian household with his eccentric mother and twin sister, who finds himself falling for a mysterious new classmate while uncovering long-hidden truths about his father. The narrative explores identity, LGBTQ+ discovery, and the realization that parents are flawed human beings. It is most appropriate for older teens due to its mature themes of sexuality and family dysfunction. Parents will appreciate how it validates the messy, non-linear process of finding one's place in the world while offering a hopeful perspective on self-acceptance.
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Sign in to write a reviewExplores themes of abandonment, family estrangement, and emotional neglect.
Characters make complex, sometimes hurtful choices regarding loyalty and honesty.
Occasional strong language consistent with realistic teenage dialogue.
The book deals directly with LGBTQ+ identity, sexual exploration, and family abandonment. The approach is realistic and secular, focusing on the emotional consequences of secrets rather than moralizing. The resolution is realistic and bittersweet: Phil finds clarity and self-identity even if every family relationship isn't perfectly mended.
A thoughtful 16-year-old who feels like an outsider in their own town or family. It is perfect for a teen who appreciates lyrical prose and is ready for a mature, honest look at the complexities of queer love and the fallibility of parents.
Parents should be aware of descriptive scenes of sexual intimacy and themes of infidelity. It is helpful to read this alongside the teen to discuss the difference between healthy and obsessive passion. A parent might see their teen becoming increasingly private, perhaps experiencing the highs and lows of a first serious relationship, or asking difficult, pointed questions about family history and why certain relatives are absent.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the mystery of the father and the excitement of the crush. Older teens (17-18) will better grasp the nuance of Phil's mother's trauma and the toxic elements of Phil's relationship with Nicholas.
Unlike many YA novels that focus solely on the 'coming out' process, this book treats Phil's sexuality as an established fact, focusing instead on the universal pain of first heartbreak and the discovery of family skeletons.
The story follows Phil, a teenage boy living in an unconventional home called Visible. While his mother Glass and sister Dianne distance themselves from the village and each other, Phil navigates a passionate and complicated first romance with a boy named Nicholas. Parallel to this romantic awakening is Phil's quest to understand his family's history, specifically the identity of his father, which has been shrouded in silence. The plot balances the intensity of adolescent desire with the slow unraveling of generational trauma.
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