Reach for this book when your child is feeling misunderstood or frustrated by their own high energy and 'wriggles.' It is a soothing balm for the student who struggles to sit still in class or the child who feels that their words or learning style don't quite fit the mold. This true historical account follows Tad Lincoln, the youngest son of Abraham Lincoln, as he navigates life in the White House with what we would now recognize as ADHD and speech challenges. Through heartwarming interactions, the story emphasizes the profound patience of a father who chooses connection over correction. It celebrates neurodivergence and the importance of empathy, showing that a child's spark is something to be nurtured, not extinguished. Ideal for ages 4 to 9, it provides a gentle way to talk about being different while feeling deeply loved.
The book addresses disability (speech and learning) through a direct but historical lens. It is secular and deeply realistic, showing that while Tad's challenges don't disappear, his sense of belonging is secured by his father's unconditional love. The resolution is hopeful and validating.
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Sign in to write a reviewA high-energy 6-year-old who often gets in trouble for 'fidgeting' or a child with a speech impediment who needs to see a historical figure who shared their struggle.
The book is safe to read cold, but parents might want to look at the author's note at the end to explain the historical context of the Civil War to older children. A parent might reach for this after a long day of receiving 'behavior reports' from school or feeling the social pressure to make their child 'behave' in public.
Younger children (4-6) will enjoy the 'naughty' fun of Tad's antics and the colorful art. Older children (7-9) will grasp the weight of the President's job and the significance of his patience.
Unlike many Lincoln books that focus on the icon, this humanizes him through the lens of neurodivergent parenting, making a historical giant relatable to the modern 'wriggly' kid.
The story follows Thomas 'Tad' Lincoln during the Civil War years. While his father, Abraham Lincoln, carries the weight of a nation, Tad carries a boundless energy that often leads to chaos. The book depicts Tad's struggles with a cleft palate (which affected his speech) and his difficulty with traditional schooling. Instead of harsh discipline, the narrative focuses on the playful, permissive relationship between father and son, culminating in Tad's unique way of 'helping' his father.
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