
Reach for this book when you notice your child bottling up grief or feeling resentful about a parent's professional success in the wake of a family tragedy. It addresses the friction between a public persona and private pain, specifically focusing on siblings who have very different memories of their late father. The story follows Chuck and Lori as they accompany their famous motivational speaker mother on a business trip, forcing them to confront long buried secrets about the accident that changed their lives. It is a sensitive, realistic exploration of family dynamics for the 10 to 14 age range, offering a roadmap for how to stop performing for the world and start being honest with one another.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals directly with the death of a parent and the lingering trauma of a fatal accident. The approach is secular and deeply realistic, focusing on the psychological impact of grief. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in reality, emphasizing communication over easy fixes.
A middle schooler who feels like they have to 'act fine' for others while feeling angry or lonely at home. It is perfect for a child who feels a disconnect between how their family is perceived by outsiders and how it actually feels to live in it.
Parents should be aware of the scene detailing the father's tractor accident, as it is emotionally intense. The book can be read cold, but be ready for questions about how different people remember the same event. A parent might see their child withdrawing or becoming unusually cynical about family traditions or a parent's work commitments.
Younger readers (10-11) will likely focus on the sibling rivalry and the novelty of the travel, while older readers (13-14) will more deeply grasp the nuances of the mother's guilt and the complexity of public vs. private identities.
Unlike many books about grief that focus on the immediate aftermath, this explores the 'long tail' of loss and how a family's narrative can become a burden to the children living within it.
Siblings Chuck and Lori travel with their mother, a renowned motivational speaker, on a multi-city tour. While the world sees their mother as an inspiration who overcame the tragic death of her husband, the children struggle with the reality of her frequent absences. Over the course of several plane rides and hotel stays, the family is forced to reconcile their differing memories of the father and the true circumstances of his death.
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