
Reach for this book when your teenager is navigating the complexities of their identity while under the pressure of social media or peer expectations. This story follows Tash Zeleny, a high school senior whose amateur web series adaptation of Leo Tolstoy suddenly goes viral. As she deals with sudden internet fame, she also navigates her identity as a romantic asexual (ace), a label she is finally ready to claim but struggles to explain to the people around her. It is a warm, witty, and grounded exploration of what it means to be true to yourself when the whole world is watching. Parents will appreciate how the book handles the intersection of creativity, digital citizenship, and healthy boundaries. The story addresses asexual identity with nuance, distinguishing between romantic attraction and sexual desire in a way that is accessible for teens. It is a realistic, secular contemporary novel perfect for older teens (14 and up) who are looking for representation that feels both modern and deeply connected to classic themes of love and self-discovery.
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Sign in to write a reviewOccasional use of mild profanity common in teen settings.
Focuses on romantic attraction and dating without explicit sexual content.
Depicts high school parties where alcohol is present.
The book offers a direct and secular exploration of asexual identity. It addresses the misconceptions and 'aphobia' Tash faces from peers and the public. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on self-acceptance rather than a 'fix' for her orientation.
A creative high schooler who feels they don't quite fit the 'standard' narrative of teen romance. This is for the theater kid, the YouTuber, or the writer who is trying to figure out how their identity fits into their digital and physical lives.
Parents should be aware of some mild profanity and discussions of teen drinking. The book is safe to read cold, but parents may want to familiarize themselves with the basics of the asexual spectrum to better support the discussion. A parent might see their child struggling with 'dating culture' or feeling distressed by the sexualized expectations of their peer group. They might hear their child express that they feel 'broken' or different because they don't experience attraction the way others do.
A 14-year-old will likely focus on the excitement of the YouTube fame and the friendship dynamics. An 18-year-old will more deeply resonate with the anxiety of transitioning to college and the nuances of navigating romantic boundaries.
Unlike many YA novels that treat asexuality as a secondary plot point, this book centers the 'ace' experience as a valid, healthy, and complex identity, all while celebrating a deep love for classical literature.
Tash Zeleny is a filmmaker and Tolstoy superfan whose life changes when her YouTube series, Unhappy Families, goes viral. While managing her sudden fame and the pressures of a major awards show, Tash must navigate her first major crush and the challenge of coming out as asexual to her fans and her romantic interest.
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