
Reach for this book when your child is facing a situation where hard work and determination simply are not enough to fix a problem, especially a family health crisis. Ten Thousand Tries follows Golden, a soccer obsessed boy who believes that if he just tries hard enough, he can master anything. However, he is forced to confront the reality of his father's ALS, a progressive disease that Golden cannot practice away or defeat with sheer willpower. This is a deeply moving story that balances the high energy of competitive sports with the quiet, often painful reality of anticipatory grief. It is appropriate for middle grade readers (ages 8 to 12) who are ready for a realistic look at chronic illness and the importance of letting go. Parents will appreciate how it validates a child's desire for control while gently teaching that true strength often lies in acceptance and presence.
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The book deals directly with ALS (Lou Gehrig's disease) and the physical decline of a parent. The approach is realistic and secular, detailing the progression of the disease without sugarcoating the difficulty. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in reality, focusing on emotional resilience rather than a miraculous cure.
A middle grade student who loves sports but is currently dealing with a heavy burden at home, such as a relative's terminal illness or a major life change that feels out of their control.
Parents should be aware that the book depicts the physical realities of ALS, including the loss of motor functions. It can be read cold, but be prepared for questions about illness and mortality. A parent might choose this book after seeing their child become uncharacteristically obsessed with performance or 'fixing' small problems as a way to avoid or cope with a larger, sadder reality in the family.
Younger readers (8-9) will likely focus on the soccer action and the sadness of the friend moving away. Older readers (11-12) will better grasp the nuance of Golden's internal struggle with his father's mortality and the metaphor of the 'ten thousand tries.'
Unlike many 'sick parent' books that are purely somber, this one uses the framework of sports and 'the grind' to explore grief, making it highly accessible to kids who might otherwise shy away from 'sad' books.
Golden Marrow is a twelve year old athlete who lives by the rule of ten thousand hours of practice. As he strives to become the captain of his soccer team and navigate the news that his best friend is moving away, he faces his most difficult opponent: his father’s ALS diagnosis. Golden tries to apply his athletic grit to his father’s health, attempting to 'fix' the unfixable, before eventually learning that some goals in life require a different kind of perseverance.
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