
Reach for this book when the daily struggle over table manners and household rules has become a point of tension rather than teaching. It is perfect for those moments when you feel like your children are resisting every 'please' and 'thank you,' providing a much-needed comedic release for both parent and child. This story follows a family where the mother, inspired by the legendary Emily Post, tries to instill rigid etiquette in her household. The children, feeling the pressure, decide to follow the rules so perfectly and excessively that they turn the house upside down with their over-the-top politeness. It is a brilliant look at the absurdity of perfectionism and the importance of finding a middle ground in family life. For children ages 4 to 8, this book transforms a dry topic like manners into a hilarious game of wits. It acknowledges the frustration children feel when being constantly corrected, while also showing parents that sometimes, 'good enough' is better than 'proper.'
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book is entirely secular and lighthearted. There are no sensitive topics regarding identity, trauma, or loss. The conflict is purely domestic and comedic.
An elementary student who is frequently corrected for their behavior or table manners and would delight in seeing children 'win' a battle of wills through cleverness rather than disobedience.
This book can be read cold. Parents should be prepared to discuss the concept of 'malicious compliance' (following the letter of the law but not the spirit) if the child doesn't quite catch the irony. A parent might reach for this after a particularly stressful dinner where they felt like a broken record saying 'sit up' or 'use your napkin.'
Younger children (4-5) will enjoy the physical comedy of the illustrations and the silly 'fancy' talk. Older children (7-8) will appreciate the satirical edge and the children's tactical brilliance in outsmarting their mother's new regime.
Unlike most books on manners which serve to instruct, this book serves to humanize. It uses historical context (Emily Post) to poke fun at the idea that 'proper' behavior is more important than family connection.
After a mother buys an etiquette book by Emily Post, she begins enforcing strict social rules on her children. The kids quickly realize they can use these same rules to their advantage. They take etiquette to a ridiculous extreme, performing exaggerated bows, using formal speech for every tiny request, and making life so stiff and formal that their mother eventually regrets ever bringing the book home. The book is finally donated, and the family returns to a more relaxed, authentic way of living.
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