
Reach for this book when your daughter begins to notice the subtle, and sometimes not-so-subtle, ways that society treats boys and girls differently. Eleven-year-old Sybil is navigating a month of minor disasters, from a mortifying fashion show to changing dynamics in her middle school social circle, all while observing her mother's growing involvement in the women's liberation movement. It is a thoughtful exploration of finding one's own voice when caught between traditional expectations and new, often confusing, social changes. This story is ideal for the pre-teen years when children start questioning the 'status quo' of gender roles and family dynamics. While set in the late 1970s, the emotional core of trying to define yourself apart from your parents' ideologies remains incredibly relevant. It offers a gentle but honest look at self-confidence, fairness, and the sometimes embarrassing process of growing up.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with gender-based discrimination and social identity. The approach is direct and secular, rooted in the historical context of the 1970s women's movement. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on Sybil's internal growth rather than a total societal shift.
A 10 or 11-year-old girl who feels caught between different worlds: perhaps she likes 'girly' things but feels pressured to be tough, or vice versa. It is perfect for the child who is starting to notice social injustices but isn't sure how to talk about them.
This book is best read with the understanding that it is a historical piece from 1979. Parents may want to discuss how much has changed (and what hasn't) regarding gender roles since the book was written. A parent might see their child expressing frustration over 'double standards' between siblings or peers, or perhaps a child who is suddenly embarrassed by their parent's outspoken beliefs.
Younger readers (9) will focus on the humor and the 'embarrassing mom' tropes. Older readers (12) will better grasp the nuances of the feminist themes and the protagonist's search for an authentic identity.
Unlike many books on this topic that take a purely 'girl power' stance, Lila Perl acknowledges the messy, awkward, and often confusing middle ground of being a child during a cultural revolution.
Eleven-year-old Sybil experiences a transformative month (April) where various events force her to confront gender stereotypes. Her mother is an active feminist, which causes tension as Sybil tries to balance her mother's progressive ideals with her own desire for traditional experiences, like participating in a fashion show. Through a series of social mishaps and school interactions, Sybil begins to evaluate what equality and identity mean to her personally.
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