Ronald Kidd's "That's What Friends Are For" is a chapter book that delves into the profound bond between two thirteen-year-old friends when one receives a leukemia diagnosis. The narrative sensitively explores the emotional landscape of serious illness, the fear of death, and the unwavering support that true friendship provides. It handles these sensitive topics directly, focusing on the emotional impact and the strength found in companionship, rather than graphic details.
The emotional arc begins with the shock of the diagnosis, moves through the challenges and uncertainties of the illness, and ultimately emphasizes resilience and the enduring power of friendship, even in the face of potential loss. It is a poignant and potentially sad read, but also deeply heartwarming.
This book is specifically for children, particularly those aged 8-11, who may be grappling with a friend or family member's serious illness, or who are trying to understand concepts of death and grief. It's also valuable for fostering empathy and discussing difficult emotions related to health and loss. A parent might reach for this book when a child's friend or family member receives a serious diagnosis, or when a child is asking profound questions about mortality.
Parents should be prepared to discuss the concepts of leukemia, illness, and death, as the book will likely evoke strong emotions. Having a conversation plan and being ready to offer comfort and further explanation is important. Younger children (at the lower end of the 4-11 age range) might focus more on the general idea of being sick and the friendship, requiring more guidance on the gravity of the illness. Older children will grasp the emotional depth and implications more fully. What sets this book apart is its direct focus on leukemia and the confrontation of death through the lens of a strong adolescent friendship, offering a classic perspective on navigating profound loss and loyalty.
