
Reach for this book when your child is acting out from jealousy, especially towards a sibling. It's a highly relatable story about Ben, who can't stand that his sister Alice gets the one robot he desperately wanted for her birthday. When he secretly opens her present and accidentally breaks it, he spirals into a series of bad decisions trying to cover it up. This book masterfully unpacks the heavy feelings of jealousy and guilt, showing the difficult but ultimately rewarding path of telling the truth. For children ages 4 to 7, it normalizes making mistakes and provides a gentle model for honesty, forgiveness, and repairing relationships.
The book deals directly with the intense, negative emotions of jealousy, guilt, and shame, as well as the act of lying to cover up a mistake. The approach is secular and psychologically realistic for a young child. The resolution is hopeful and reinforces the security of family love and the power of apology and forgiveness.
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Sign in to write a reviewA 4 to 6-year-old child who is experiencing their first major bout of sibling jealousy, has recently been caught in a lie, or is struggling with the overwhelming feeling of guilt after making a mistake. This is for the child who shouts "It's not fair!" and needs help navigating that powerful feeling and its consequences.
The book can be read cold and is very straightforward. A parent might want to be prepared to pause on the pages showing Ben's frantic attempts to hide the broken robot. These illustrations are great opportunities to ask, "How do you think Ben is feeling inside right now?" to help build emotional vocabulary. The parent has just discovered their child broke a sibling's toy out of jealousy or has told a significant lie to cover up a mistake. The parent might have heard their child say, "I wish that was mine!" or witnessed a meltdown over a sibling getting a new toy or special attention.
A younger child (4-5) will connect with the concrete plot points: Ben broke the toy and tried to hide it. They will grasp the basic emotions of being mad, sad, and scared. An older child (6-7) will better understand the internal conflict. They'll recognize the heavy feeling of guilt and the anxiety of keeping a secret, making them more receptive to a conversation about honesty and empathy for both Ben and his sister.
Unlike many books about honesty that can feel preachy, this one excels at capturing the internal, frantic panic of a child who has made a mistake. The humor in Ben's terrible cover-up ideas makes the serious topic of lying feel accessible and non-judgmental. It focuses empathetically on the emotional spiral of the child who did wrong, not just on the misdeed itself.
Ben is consumed with jealousy when his younger sister, Alice, receives a cool robot for her birthday, a toy he desperately wanted. In a moment of poor judgment, he opens her present early, plays with it, and accidentally breaks it. Panicked, Ben tries to hide his mistake through a series of increasingly absurd and humorous schemes. The truth inevitably comes out, leading to Alice's disappointment and Ben's confession. The story resolves with parental guidance, Ben's apology, and a heartwarming moment of sibling forgiveness and reconciliation.
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