
A parent might reach for this book when formal lessons about manners feel too preachy and a dose of humor is needed. "The Bad Good Manners Book" is a brilliant and silly antidote to stuffy etiquette guides. Through laugh-out-loud rhymes and chaotic illustrations, it presents a series of outrageous "bad" behaviors, like picking your nose or eating like a pig, and contrasts them with simple, sensible "good" manners. It playfully touches on empathy and social awareness without ever feeling like a lecture. This book is perfect for preschoolers and early elementary kids who resist rules, as it invites them to laugh at the taboo behaviors first, making them more receptive to the gentle lesson. It's an excellent tool for starting conversations about why we have social rules, framing them not as a burden but as a way to be kind and considerate to others, all while having a fantastically funny time.
This book does not contain sensitive topics. Its approach to behavior is entirely secular and humor-based. The resolution on each page is a simple, positive alternative to the chaotic bad behavior shown.
The ideal reader is a 4 to 6-year-old who is in a defiant or silly phase and resists direct instruction. It is perfect for a child who loves slapstick or potty humor and learns best when they are laughing. This book helps externalize the concept of "bad manners" as something funny rather than something to be ashamed of.
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Sign in to write a reviewParents should be prepared to embrace the silliness. The illustrations of bad manners are meant to be funny and a little gross. It is best to read it cold and laugh along with the child at the "bad" pictures before gently guiding the conversation to the "good" ones. No special context is needed. A parent has just returned from a playdate or family dinner where their child was unapologetically messy, loud, or rude. They feel frustrated and are looking for a non-confrontational way to bring up the topic of manners without starting a fight or a lecture.
A younger child (4-5) will primarily enjoy the visual humor of the bad manners, seeing it as a permission slip to laugh at naughty behavior. They will need a parent's guidance to connect it to the lesson. An older child (6-7) will better appreciate the comedic contrast and the social logic behind the rules, understanding the cause and effect of rude behavior on others.
Unlike most manners books that can feel preachy or moralistic, this book's defining feature is its gleeful, almost celebratory depiction of bad manners. Babette Cole's chaotic, cartoonish art style and rhyming text make the lesson feel like a joke book. It validates a child's mischievous impulse before correcting it, which makes the message far more palatable.
This book is a concept book structured as a series of humorous, rhyming vignettes. Each two-page spread contrasts a comically exaggerated example of bad manners (e.g., picking your nose, talking with your mouth full, being a sore loser) with a simple illustration and description of the corresponding good manner. The book covers a wide range of social situations including table manners, hygiene, greetings, and sportsmanship.
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