
Reach for this book when your child is struggling to navigate a difficult social dynamic or feels like an outsider in a new community. It is a powerful tool for teaching children that even the person who seems like a bully might be carrying their own heavy burden of loneliness or fear. The story follows Deo, a young refugee in Tanzania who finds a way to connect with a hostile peer through the shared craft of making a soccer ball and the joy of the game. It is a deeply empathetic look at how common ground can be built from nothing but banana leaves and string. This book is ideally suited for children ages 8 to 12 who are developing more complex understandings of social conflict and global issues. Parents will appreciate how the story handles the reality of life in a refugee camp with honesty but also with a profound sense of hope and resilience. It serves as a beautiful model for how small acts of cooperation can lead to significant emotional breakthroughs and the formation of lasting friendships.
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The bully is shown to have his own struggles, complicating the hero/villain dynamic.
The book addresses the refugee experience, including displacement and the threat of violence, in a direct but age-appropriate way. The approach is secular and realistic, focusing on human connection as the primary vehicle for healing. The resolution is hopeful and grounded in communal action.
An upper-elementary student who is interested in sports but is also ready to discuss global citizenship. Specifically, a child who has witnessed bullying and needs to see a model for how to de-escalate conflict through empathy.
Read the author's note at the end first. It provides real-world context about the refugee camps and the 'Right to Play' organization, which helps ground the story in history. A parent might choose this after their child describes being excluded on the playground or if the child is expressing fear about 'new people' or outsiders.
Younger children (8-9) will focus on the tension of the bullying and the cool factor of DIY soccer balls. Older children (10-12) will better grasp the political context of the refugee camp and the nuance of Remy's character development.
Unlike many books about bullying that focus on standing up for oneself, this one focuses on the transformative power of a shared project (the ball) to humanize the 'enemy.'
Deo has fled war in Burundi and lives in the Lukole refugee camp in Tanzania. He is isolated and targeted by Remy, a local gang leader who bullies him. When a coach arrives with a real soccer ball, the boys are drawn to the game. However, it is the process of crafting a ball together from banana leaves that finally bridges the gap between Deo and Remy, allowing them to see each other's humanity.
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