
Reach for this book when your child feels social pressure to have the newest, flashiest toy or when they are struggling with feelings of inadequacy compared to peers. It is a perfect remedy for the 'comparison trap' that children often fall into at school or parties. The story follows Betsy as she chooses which doll to bring to a neighborhood party with prizes for the oldest, best-dressed, and most talented dolls. Instead of picking a pristine doll, Betsy chooses her well-worn, deeply loved Jennifer. It is a gentle exploration of loyalty and the intrinsic value of things we love, suitable for children ages 4 to 8. Parents will appreciate how it validates a child's internal compass over external rewards.
The book is entirely secular and safe. It touches on the social anxiety of being judged by peers, but the approach is realistic and gentle. The resolution is hopeful and validating.
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Sign in to write a reviewA thoughtful 6-year-old who has a 'security object' or a favorite toy they feel they have outgrown in public, but still cherish in private. It is for the child who notices that the 'cool' toys aren't always the best ones.
This book can be read cold. It is a mid-20th-century classic, so the pacing is slower than modern titles, which makes it an excellent bedtime read. A parent might see their child hesitate to bring a favorite comfort item to a playdate because they are afraid of being teased or judged for its shabby appearance.
Younger children (4-5) focus on the party and the dolls' appearances. Older children (7-8) grasp the deeper moral dilemma of loyalty versus vanity and the integrity of Betsy's choice.
Unlike many stories where a character wins by being the best at a skill, this book rewards the emotional labor of love and the history of a relationship between a child and an object.
Betsy is invited to a doll party where prizes will be awarded for the oldest doll, the best-dressed doll, and the doll that can do the most things (like walking or talking). Betsy owns several dolls that could easily win: a doll from her great-grandmother, a doll with a trunk full of beautiful clothes, and a mechanical doll. However, she decides to bring Jennifer, a plain doll with a cracked face and missing hair, because Jennifer is her most 'best-loved' companion. In a touching twist, the hostess creates a special fourth category: a medal for the best-loved doll.
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