
Reach for this book when your child is standing on the threshold of puberty and searching for examples of what it means to be a good man in the modern world. Archer Magill is a fifth grader navigating the transition to middle school while observing the adults in his life, including his architect grandfather, his car-enthusiast father, and his beloved uncle. It is a warm, witty exploration of growing up, finding one's voice, and understanding that heroes come in many forms. Parents will appreciate the way it normalizes LGBTQ+ family dynamics through a lens of love and tradition. It is a gentle, sophisticated choice for kids aged 9 to 12 who are starting to notice the complexities of adult relationships and the shifting expectations of their own gender identity.
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The book handles identity and same-sex marriage directly and with great warmth. It is a secular approach that focuses on family values and community support. It also touches on bullying and the death of a beloved pet, resolving these issues in a realistic, hopeful manner.
A 10 or 11-year-old boy who feels a bit out of place in the 'macho' culture of middle school and needs a story that celebrates sensitivity, architecture, and diverse male identities.
Read the scenes involving the 'disruptive' student, Russell Cooper, to discuss how Archer handles school social dynamics. The wedding at the end is a perfect point for discussing different types of families. A parent might see their child being teased for not fitting into traditional gender roles or hear their child asking questions about what makes a 'real' man.
Younger readers will enjoy the school-day slapstick and the car culture, while older readers will pick up on the subtle humor regarding adult social cues and the emotional weight of Archer's growing maturity.
Unlike many books focusing on LGBTQ+ themes which center on the struggle of coming out, this book centers on the joy of being in a family where being gay is simply one part of a person's life.
The story follows Archer Magill from the end of elementary school through the start of middle school. Living in a small town, Archer looks up to three men: his grandfather, his father, and his Uncle Paul. Throughout the book, he adds a fourth role model: his first male teacher, Mr. McLeod. As Archer deals with typical growing pains and school bullies, he watches a relationship bloom between Uncle Paul and Mr. McLeod. The story culminates in Archer serving as the best man at their wedding.
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