
A parent should reach for this book when their child is navigating a significant family transition, feeling disconnected from their roots, or trying to understand the complexities of the immigrant experience. Reyna Grande's memoir follows her journey from Mexico to the United States, detailing the years spent waiting for her parents and the eventual, difficult reunion in California. It addresses deep themes of abandonment, perseverance, and the search for home with refreshing honesty. While it touches on the hardships of poverty and family dysfunction, it remains an empowering testament to resilience. It is an ideal choice for middle schoolers ready to engage with real-world social issues through a deeply personal, empathetic lens.
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Sign in to write a reviewDepictions of corporal punishment and physical discipline by family members.
References to the father's struggle with alcohol use.
Explores the challenges of being undocumented and an English language learner.
The book deals directly and secularly with child neglect, physical discipline, and the trauma of family separation. The resolution is realistic and bittersweet: Reyna achieves academic success and safety, but the emotional scars of her upbringing and the 'distance' created by immigration remain visible.
A 12-year-old student who feels like an outsider, perhaps a first-generation immigrant or a child in kinship care, who needs to see that their background is a source of strength rather than shame.
Parents should be aware of scenes depicting physical punishment by the grandmother and the father's struggle with alcoholism. These moments provide context for Reyna's resilience but may require discussion. A parent might notice their child questioning why people 'break the law' to come to the U.S., or perhaps the child is reacting to stories of family members being separated.
Younger readers (10-11) will focus on the 'adventure' of the crossing and the sibling bond. Older readers (13-14) will better grasp the systemic issues of poverty and the psychological toll of the 'American Dream.'
Unlike many immigration stories that end at the border, this memoir spends significant time on the 'after,' exploring the messy, non-linear process of emotional healing and cultural assimilation.
This middle grade adaptation of Grande's memoir recounts her childhood in Iguala, Mexico, living in poverty under her grandmother's harsh care while her parents work in the U.S. It culminates in a dangerous border crossing and the difficult reality of assimilating into a new culture while living with a father who is often volatile and demanding.
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