The Donkey Who Wanted to Be a Dog

Reach for this book when you notice your child caught in the 'comparison trap,' whether they are envious of a sibling's privileges or feeling like their own unique talents aren't being seen. This humorous story follows a donkey named Barnaby who, feeling neglected compared to the farm dog, decides to trade his braying for barking and his hay for a spot on the porch. It is a lighthearted but effective look at the grass-is-greener syndrome and the exhaustion that comes from performing an identity that does not fit. While Barnaby's antics will make children aged 3 to 7 laugh, the emotional core addresses the very real sting of feeling overlooked. As Barnaby realizes that being a dog is harder than it looks, parents can use his journey to discuss why every member of a family or classroom has a specific, valuable role. It is an excellent choice for building self-confidence and helping children appreciate their own inherent strengths without needing to mimic others.