The Magic Kerchief

For the child who struggles with being a 'grump' or needs help understanding how kind words can build friendships.

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About This Book

Reach for this book when your child is stuck in a cycle of grumpiness or is struggling to understand how their tone of voice affects their friendships. The Magic Kerchief is a whimsical, folklore-inspired tale about Griselda, a woman whose sour attitude has left her isolated and lonely. When a mysterious kerchief forces her to speak only kind words and helpful advice, she discovers that the way she treats others directly impacts how they treat her. It is an excellent choice for children ages 4 to 8 who are navigating the social complexities of the playground or classroom. By using the 'magic' of the kerchief as a metaphor for social filters and empathy, the book provides a gentle, non-preachy way to discuss the power of our words and the value of turning a frown upside down to build a community.

Empathy & Kindness Making Friends Fantasy & Magic Loneliness & Belonging Manners & Behavior Anger & Frustration Making an Apology Friendship & Social

What Parents Should Know

Moral AmbiguityMild

The protagonist is intentionally mean-spirited at the start of the story.

Sensitive Topics

The book handles social isolation and character flaws through a secular, metaphorical lens. There are no heavy topics like death or trauma: rather, it focuses on the internal 'disability' of a closed heart. The resolution is hopeful and empowering, showing that change is possible through behavior.