
Reach for this book when your child is caught in a loop of comparison, feeling that their life or belongings are not quite enough. It is a gentle remedy for the common case of the 'gimmes' or a persistent envy of others' perceived luck. The story follows Ha-Li, a poor boy who dreams of a life of luxury and power. Through a magical pillow, he is transported into a dream where he gets everything he ever wanted, only to realize that the grass isn't always greener. This traditional Chinese folktale uses intricate, stunning illustrations to show that true peace comes from within. It is a perfect choice for children ages 4 to 8 who are beginning to navigate social hierarchies at school and need a reminder that contentment is more valuable than any pot of gold.
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The book deals with themes of poverty and political corruption. The approach is metaphorical and rooted in traditional folklore. While there is a sense of peril in the dream world, the resolution is hopeful and grounded in reality.
An elementary student who has started making comments about what other families have, or a child who feels 'stuck' in their current circumstances and needs a imaginative way to explore the concept of contentment.
Read this book cold; the transition between the dream and reality is seamless and benefits from the surprise. Note the beautiful Chinese artistic style to discuss with the child. A child saying 'It's not fair that they have that and I don't' or expressing a desire to be 'the boss' so they can make all the rules.
Younger children (4-5) will be captivated by the 'what-if' magic of the pillow and the vibrant colors. Older children (7-8) will better grasp the irony that the dream life Ha-Li wanted was actually more stressful than his real one.
Unlike many 'be grateful' books that feel preachy, Demi uses the 'Life is but a Dream' motif from Chinese philosophy to let the child experience the downside of greed through a stunning visual narrative.
Ha-Li is a poor young man who complains about his lot in life. After meeting a magician, he is gifted a porcelain pillow. While his millet cooks, Ha-Li naps on the pillow and enters a vivid dream world where he rises from a humble farmer to a high-ranking official and eventually a powerful leader. However, he discovers that with power comes corruption, betrayal, and danger. He wakes up just as his dinner is finished, realizing only moments have passed but his perspective has changed forever.
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