
Reach for this book when your child is starting to feel the social pressures of middle school or expresses worry about being liked by the right people. It is a brilliant resource for children who are trying to decode the mysterious rules of popularity while maintaining their own unique identities. The story follows two best friends, Lydia and Julie, who decide to study the popular kids as if they were a scientific project. This notebook-style narrative captures the humor, embarrassment, and intense loyalty of early adolescence. Parents will appreciate how it validates the awkwardness of growing up while gently mocking the superficiality of social hierarchies. It is a perfect choice for ages 8 to 12 because it uses a highly visual, diary-like format that makes complex social emotions feel manageable and funny. Ultimately, it reinforces that true friendship is far more valuable than being part of the in-crowd.
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Sign in to write a reviewIncludes some mild middle-school insults like 'loser' or 'weirdo.'
The book handles identity and family structure with a direct, secular, and matter-of-fact approach. One of the protagonists has two dads, which is presented as a normal part of her life rather than a central plot 'issue.' The resolution of social conflicts is realistic and hopeful, focusing on self-acceptance.
A 10-year-old who feels like an outsider and is obsessed with 'how things work' in the cafeteria. It is perfect for visual learners or fans of diary-style fiction who need to see that everyone else is just as confused as they are.
No specific scenes require previewing, but parents should be ready to discuss the 'mean girl' tropes depicted. The book can be read cold and is very accessible. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child say, 'Everyone at school is doing this one thing and if I don't do it, I'm a loser.'
Younger readers (ages 8-9) will enjoy the slapstick humor and the cool notebook aesthetic. Older readers (11-12) will deeply resonate with the nuances of social exclusion and the desire for peer approval.
Unlike many school stories, this is a duo-perspective book. The alternating handwriting and drawing styles emphasize that even between best friends, perspectives on social status can differ.
Lydia and Julie are two best friends entering middle school who decide to treat popularity as a social science experiment. They keep a collaborative notebook, filled with drawings, notes, and observations, as they attempt to climb the social ladder through a series of specific, often misguided, missions. They test out different cliques, sports, and fashion choices, only to realize that the rules of being popular are often contradictory and that their friendship is the most stable thing in their lives.
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