
Reach for this book when your teenager is struggling with the paralyzing pressure of academic or social perfectionism. If your child has experienced a public failure or feels that their worth is tied entirely to their achievements, this story offers a vital perspective on recalibrating one's identity. It follows Mara, a high achiever whose life unravels after a viral panic attack during a competition. Mara retreats to Lake Tahoe to live with her estranged biological father, a professional poker player. The narrative explores themes of shame, forgiveness, and the beauty of being present in the moment. It is highly appropriate for ages 13 to 18, providing a secular and realistic look at how one mistake can actually be the beginning of a more authentic life. Parents will appreciate the nuanced portrayal of complex family dynamics and the healthy modeling of a teen learning to advocate for her own mental well-being.
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Sign in to write a reviewOccasional mentions of teen drinking and a party scene.
Sweet, age-appropriate budding romance and kissing.
The book deals with anxiety and public shaming in a direct, contemporary manner. The family conflict involving an estranged parent is handled with realism, showing that reconciliation is a slow process. It is a secular story with a hopeful, grounded resolution.
A high schooler who feels burnt out by the college admissions race or who has suffered a social media setback and needs to see that life continues after a reputation-damaging event.
Read cold, but be prepared to discuss the pressure of 'all or nothing' thinking. There is some minor teen partying and drinking that serves as a backdrop to the social setting. A parent might choose this after seeing their teen break down over a B grade or witnessing their child become withdrawn following a social media conflict.
Younger teens will focus on the romance and the 'new school' fish out of water tropes. Older teens will resonate more deeply with the existential dread of 'what comes next' and the pressure of parental expectations.
Unlike many 'teen in crisis' books, this focuses on the intellectual and philosophical shift from perfectionism to presence, using the metaphor of card games and gambling to explore risk and chance.
Mara is a straight-A student in a high-pressure private school whose life implodes when she has a panic attack during a speech and the video goes viral. Seeking an escape from the shame and her mother's high expectations, she moves to Lake Tahoe to spend a semester with her biological father, Trick, a professional gambler she barely knows. In the mountains, she learns to navigate new friendships, a potential romance, and the concept of 'the possibility of now' as she reconstructs her identity outside of being the 'perfect' girl.
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