
A parent would reach for this book when their child is struggling to navigate the messy, often jealous feelings that come with a blended family or a 'second' family living far away. It speaks directly to the 'middle' child who feels replaced by new siblings or step-parents. The story follows twelve-year-old Annabel as she travels from New York to Australia to spend Christmas with her father, his new wife, and her 'steps.' Through Annabel's journey, the book explores themes of belonging, cultural displacement, and the realization that love isn't a finite resource. It is a realistic, grounded, and ultimately comforting look at modern family structures for the 8 to 12 age group.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals directly with divorce and remarriage. The approach is realistic and secular. It does not shy away from the protagonist's resentment toward her father's new life. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in reality, acknowledging that blended families require constant work and compromise.
A 10 to 12-year-old who feels like an 'only child' at home but a 'guest' in their other parent's house. It is perfect for the child who uses snark as a shield to hide their fear of being forgotten.
The book can be read cold. Parents may want to discuss the scene where Annabel feels like an observer of her father's 'perfect' new life to help their child vocalize similar feelings. A parent might see their child acting out, being unusually territorial over possessions, or expressing 'jet-lagged' emotions after returning from a visit with a non-custodial parent.
Younger readers (8-9) will enjoy the 'fish out of water' humor and the Australian setting. Older readers (11-12) will deeply resonate with Annabel's identity crisis and the complexities of sibling rivalry.
Unlike many 'divorce books' that focus on the immediate breakup, this highlights the long-term reality of international blended families and the specific cultural clash between New York and Australia.
Annabel, a cynical but sensitive 12-year-old from New York, travels to Australia to visit her father. She is confronted with 'The Steps': her father's new wife, her three step-siblings, and two half-siblings. The story tracks her internal resistance to this new family unit and her eventual realization that she can be part of their world without losing her connection to her life in Manhattan.
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