
Reach for this book when your child is standing on the sidelines of the playground or hesitating to join a new activity because they are afraid they won't be good at it. Lou and her friends are a tight-knit group of adventurers, but when a tree-climbing mission arises, Lou encounters a hurdle she cannot simply joke her way out of. It is a brilliant resource for addressing the intersection of anxiety and identity. This story beautifully captures the internal monologue of a child who uses humor and excuses to mask their fear of failure. It normalizes the feeling of being the 'only one' who can't do something and, crucially, it validates the choice to walk away and try again another day. Ideal for preschoolers and early elementary students, it offers a realistic look at bravery that doesn't always end in an immediate, perfect victory.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with social anxiety and the fear of peer judgment in a secular, realistic way. The resolution is realistic: she does not successfully climb the tree by the end of the book, which provides a healthy alternative to the 'instant success' trope.
A child who is highly imaginative and verbal but physically cautious. It is perfect for the 'perfectionist' 5-year-old who refuses to try a task unless they are certain they can master it immediately.
This book is safe to read cold. Parents should be prepared to discuss the ending, as children used to standard 'overcoming' narratives might be surprised that Lou doesn't reach the top. A parent might see their child making up excuses to avoid a birthday party activity or a gym class lesson, or hear their child say 'I just don't want to' when it is clear they are actually afraid.
Younger children (3 to 4) will enjoy the funny excuses and the vibrant illustrations. Older children (6 to 7) will deeply resonate with the social pressure and the internal conflict of wanting to fit in while feeling capable.
Unlike many books where the protagonist conquers their fear and succeeds on the first try, Spires allows Lou to fail, walk away with her dignity intact, and decide to try again on her own timeline.
Lou and her friends are a group of imaginative adventurers. When the group decides to climb a tree to play 'pirates,' Lou realizes she has never climbed a tree before. She spends the majority of the book coming up with elaborate excuses (a broken arm, a cat needing rescue, being a fish) to avoid the task. Eventually, she tries, fails to reach the first branch, and decides she isn't ready yet, though she plans to try again later.
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