
A parent might reach for this book when their older child is expressing frustration or annoyance with a younger sibling, and perhaps testing boundaries with mean-spirited games. "They Really Like Me!" tells the story of sisters Abby and Penny, who are unenthusiastic about babysitting their little brother, Joshua. They devise a plan to scare him by dressing up as monsters, but the prank backfires when Joshua is delighted instead of frightened. The story gently explores the girls' resulting feelings of shame and embarrassment, especially when their parents praise them for playing so nicely. It's a warm and relatable tale for ages 4 to 7 that opens a conversation about empathy, consequences, and the complicated, loving dynamics of sibling relationships without being preachy.
There are no sensitive topics in this book. The central conflict is very mild sibling rivalry handled with a gentle, secular, and realistic approach. The resolution is entirely hopeful and reinforces positive family bonds.
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Sign in to write a reviewThis book is perfect for a 5 to 7-year-old older sibling who frequently complains about a younger one. It's for the child who might say "He's so annoying!" and is beginning to experiment with exclusion or minor pranks, but is still capable of feeling remorse and empathy.
No parent prep is required. The book can be read cold. The illustrations are soft and reassuring, ensuring the monster costumes are seen as playful rather than frightening. The emotional lesson is clear and unfolds naturally through the story. A parent has just overheard their older child being unkind to a younger sibling, or has witnessed a prank intended to be mean but that wasn't physically harmful. The trigger is the desire to address the intention behind the unkindness in a gentle way.
A 4-year-old will enjoy the visual humor of the failed trick and the silly monster costumes. A 6 or 7-year-old will better understand the nuanced emotional shift in the sisters: their motivation for the prank, their awkwardness when it fails, and the shame they feel when they receive unearned praise. The older child grasps the idea that their intentions didn't match the outcome.
While many books cover sibling jealousy, this one uniquely captures the specific feeling of being burdened by a younger sibling. Its core lesson about empathy is delivered through the clever mechanism of a backfired prank, which feels more organic and less didactic than a simple lecture or argument. The focus on the older siblings' internal realization is subtle and effective.
Older sisters Abby and Penny, annoyed at having to watch their younger brother Joshua, decide to scare him by dressing as monsters. Their plan backfires spectacularly when Joshua is thrilled by the "monsters" and wants to play. When their parents return and praise them for being so kind to their brother, the girls feel a mix of guilt and embarrassment, leading to a subtle shift in their perspective and a moment of genuine sibling connection.
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