
When a child is struggling to cope with the upheaval of parental separation, this book offers a gentle and relatable story. Twelve-year-old Alice's world is turned upside down when her dad moves out. She retreats to a tent in the backyard, vowing to stay until he returns, while also focusing intensely on her summer swim team goals. This quiet, character-driven novel explores heavy themes like divorce and parental depression with great sensitivity. It shows how unexpected friendships and finding your own strength can help you navigate life's biggest changes. For ages 9-13, it's a comforting read that normalizes difficult feelings and models resilience without offering easy answers.
The book deals directly with parental separation and parental mental illness (depression). The approach is secular and seen entirely through Alice's perspective. She experiences her mother's depression as lethargy, sadness, and an inability to parent effectively. The resolution is realistic and hopeful: the parents do not reconcile, but Alice accepts the new family structure and her mother begins seeking help. Piper's selective mutism is also a direct topic, handled with gentleness and curiosity.
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Sign in to write a reviewA child aged 9-12 who is experiencing a major family change, like a parental separation, and is feeling powerless. It's especially suited for a thoughtful, introverted child who is trying to find a sense of control by focusing on a specific goal or hobby.
Parents should be prepared to discuss the mother's depression and what it means for a parent to struggle with mental health. The fact that the parents' separation is permanent is a key point to be ready to talk about. The book can be read cold, but follow-up conversations will be crucial for a child going through a similar experience. A parent hears their child say something like, "If I can just be perfect at [soccer/school/etc.], then maybe Mom and Dad will get back together." Or a parent observes their child withdrawing and creating a small, controllable world for themselves to cope with big, scary feelings.
A younger reader (9-10) will likely connect most with the friendship story, the swimming subplot, and the novelty of living in a tent. An older reader (11-13) is more likely to grasp the nuances of the mother's mental health issues, the complexities of Alice's grief, and the metaphor of choosing a different swimming stroke for a different life path.
Unlike many books on divorce that focus on the conflict, this story excels in its quiet exploration of the aftermath. Its unique strength is the portrayal of a child's internal coping mechanisms, symbolized by the tent and the swimming goal. The gentle handling of parental depression from a child's point of view is particularly sensitive and well-executed.
When 12-year-old Alice's father moves out, her mother sinks into a deep depression, and Alice copes by moving into her family's old Renaissance Faire tent in the backyard. She dedicates her summer to a single, controllable goal: getting her name on the swim team's record board for freestyle. Her solitary quest is interrupted by two new people in her life: Harriet, a science-obsessed peer who insists Alice's best stroke is backstroke, and Piper, a young, nonverbal girl Alice babysits who eventually speaks only to her.
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