
Reach for this book when your teenager is processing the impending loss of a beloved grandparent or struggling to bridge the emotional distance between generations. It is a lyrical and deeply moving story about fourteen-year-old Emmie, who travels to the desert to help her grandmother, Ola, prepare for her final move as she battles terminal cancer. Through the lens of a video camera, Emmie captures the stories of her family's past, helping her mother and grandmother reconcile their differing ways of grieving. Parents will appreciate how the book handles heavy themes like mortality and historical racial trauma with a gentle, poetic touch. It offers a sophisticated look at how families preserve legacy through storytelling and art. While the subject matter is serious, the focus on love, continuity, and the beauty of the desert landscape provides a comforting framework for adolescents navigating their own first encounters with significant loss.
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Sign in to write a reviewIncludes the story of a grandfather being murdered by white men in the segregated South.
While the death occurs after the book ends, the preparation for it is the central plot.
The book deals directly and secularly with terminal illness and death. It also addresses historical racial violence (a lynching/murder) in a realistic but age-appropriate way. The resolution is realistic: Ola is still dying, but the family has found a way to carry her spirit with them.
A thoughtful, artistic middle or high schooler who feels like an observer in their family and is looking for a way to process a grandparent's illness through a creative lens.
Parents should be aware of the backstory involving the grandfather's murder (pages 60-70 range), as it is a visceral moment of historical injustice that may require discussion about Jim Crow era violence. A parent might notice their child becoming withdrawn or asking deep questions about what happens to people's stories after they die, especially following a terminal diagnosis in the family.
Younger readers (11-12) will focus on Emmie's bond with Ola and the desert setting. Older readers (14-16) will better grasp the complex mother-daughter tension and the weight of the historical trauma mentioned.
Unlike many 'dying grandparent' books, this one uses the medium of film as a narrative device and connects individual family grief to broader historical African American experiences in a slim, poetic volume.
Emmie, her mother, and her grandmother Ola gather in the California desert. Ola is dying of cancer and must move into the city to be cared for. Emmie spends her days filming Ola and their neighbors, documenting the stories that define their family. Through these interviews, Emmie learns about the life of her grandfather, who was murdered by white men years ago, and how that trauma shaped her mother's desire to leave the desert behind.
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