Tough Boris

Reach for this book when your child is grappling with the idea that 'big' or 'tough' people are not allowed to show weakness or sadness. It is an essential tool for dismantling the pressure of toxic masculinity or the fear of appearing vulnerable, especially after a loss like the death of a pet. Through the repetitive, rhythmic world of pirates, Mem Fox explores the duality of character. While Boris von der Borch is greedy, scary, and tough, he is also shown grieving deeply when his parrot dies. The watercolor illustrations provide a soft, dreamy backdrop to a story that reassures children aged 3 to 7 that having feelings is a universal human experience, regardless of one's outward persona. It is a gentle way to open conversations about empathy and the hidden lives of others.