Reach for this book when your child is struggling with the messy, uncomfortable overlap of sibling jealousy and genuine worry. It is a powerful resource for middle schoolers who feel guilty about their own negative thoughts toward a sibling who has become the center of family attention due to a medical crisis. The story follows Meg, a photography enthusiast who feels plain compared to her beautiful sister Molly. When Molly is diagnosed with a terminal illness, Meg must navigate a sea of resentment, grief, and eventually, acceptance. Lois Lowry handles this heavy subject with a quiet, grounded realism that respects a young reader's emotional intelligence. It is ideal for ages 10 to 14, providing a safe space to acknowledge that loving someone doesn't mean you always like them, and that complex feelings are a normal part of the grieving process.
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Sign in to write a reviewDeals with terminal illness, grief, and the physical decline of a child.
Meg feels intense guilt for her jealous thoughts, which is explored as a normal human reaction.
The book deals directly with terminal illness and the death of a sibling. The approach is secular and starkly realistic. While it is set in a specific time period, the medical helplessness and the emotional weight of a changing body (Molly's hair loss and mood swings) are handled with honesty. The resolution is realistic: Molly dies, and Meg must find a way to live with the memory.
A thoughtful 11 or 12-year-old who feels 'second best' in their family or a child who is currently witnessing a sibling or peer face a serious medical diagnosis. It's for the kid who thinks in pictures and needs permission to feel angry even when things are sad.
Parents should be aware that Molly's decline is described with physical detail (nosebleeds, hair loss). The book is best read when a parent is available to discuss the concept of 'survivor's guilt.' A parent might see their child withdrawing or lashing out at a sick sibling, or perhaps they hear their child say, 'It's not fair that everything is about them now.'
A 10-year-old may focus more on the fear of the illness itself, while a 14-year-old will deeply resonate with Meg's identity crisis and her need to be seen as an individual apart from her sister.
Unlike many 'sick lit' books that focus on the patient, this is one of the few that centers entirely on the sibling's resentment and guilt, making it an essential tool for family emotional health.
Meg and Molly are sisters who couldn't be more different. Meg is academic and artistic (photography), while Molly is popular and traditionally beautiful. When their family moves to a rural farmhouse for their father's writing sabbatical, the sisters share a room, heightening their friction. Molly begins experiencing mysterious nosebleeds and bruising, eventually being hospitalized with what is implied to be leukemia. The story tracks Meg's internal journey as she balances her growing friendship with an elderly neighbor and his twin friends against the slow, painful loss of her sister.
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