
Reach for this book when your child is grappling with the complexity of biological versus chosen family, especially if an absent parent is attempting to re-enter their life. Nine-year-old Rivers has always known his great-uncle as the primary father figure in his life, but everything is thrown into turmoil when his biological father suddenly returns after years of absence. It is a sensitive exploration of loyalty and the realization that being a father is about showing up, not just sharing DNA. This story is particularly helpful for navigating the 'middle grade' emotions of 8 to 12-year-olds who are beginning to see their parents as flawed humans. It validates the confusion and anger a child might feel when a parent's promises are broken. By honoring the bond between Rivers and his Uncle Daddy, the book provides a comforting reminder that family is built through consistent love and presence.
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Sign in to write a reviewThemes of abandonment, broken promises, and the pain of an unreliable parent.
The book addresses parental abandonment and substance abuse in a very direct, realistic manner. It is secular in nature. The resolution is bittersweet but grounded: it does not offer a magical reconciliation where the father is suddenly 'fixed,' but rather a realistic affirmation of the stable family Rivers already has.
An upper-elementary student (ages 9-11) who lives in a non-traditional or kinship-care household and may be feeling the 'tug' of an absent biological parent.
Parents should be prepared to discuss the reality of the father's drug history, which is mentioned as the reason for his absence. It is best to read this alongside the child to handle the moments of disappointment. A parent might choose this book after hearing their child ask 'Why isn't my dad here?' or witnessing the child's heartbreak after a cancelled visit or a broken promise from an estranged relative.
Younger readers will focus on the 'meanness' of the father leaving, while older readers will better grasp the nuance of Rivers' identity crisis and the value of Uncle Daddy's quiet, steady devotion.
Unlike many books that focus on a mother-child bond in the absence of a father, this uniquely centers the relationship between a boy and an older male relative, celebrating unconventional male caregiving.
Rivers has been raised by his mother and his great-uncle, whom he affectionately calls Uncle Daddy. His biological father has been absent for years due to a history of drug abuse and instability. When the father suddenly returns, claiming to be clean and wanting a second chance, Rivers is caught between the pull of biological curiosity and his fierce loyalty to the man who actually raised him. The story follows Rivers as he navigates these competing loyalties and the eventual disappointment when his father proves to be unreliable once again.
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