
Reach for this book when your child is experiencing the long, often difficult season of waiting for a significant life change, particularly the arrival of an adopted sibling. While it focuses on a family's journey to China, the core of the story is about the emotional preparation and the transition from imagining a new family member to finally holding them. It captures the anticipation and the slightly surreal experience of traveling across the world to complete a family. This gentle narrative is ideal for children ages 4 to 8, offering a realistic look at the logistics and emotions involved in international adoption. It validates the 'big feelings' of siblings who might feel left out or impatient, while also highlighting the wonder of different cultures and the universal language of love. Parents will find it an excellent tool for normalizing the waiting period and fostering a sense of shared adventure.
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The book approaches adoption with a secular, direct, and highly positive lens. While it doesn't dwell on the trauma of abandonment or the biological parents, it focuses on the building of a new family. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, showing the immediate bond and the logistical reality of the process.
An elementary schooler who is about to become a big brother or sister through adoption and is struggling with the concept of time or the distance involved in the process.
This book can be read cold. Parents should be prepared to discuss that every adoption story is unique, as some details (like the specific hotel meeting) might differ from their own family's experience. A parent might reach for this when their child asks, 'When will they be here?' for the hundredth time, or expresses anxiety about how the new baby will fit into their current world.
Younger children (4-5) will focus on the excitement of the airplane and the 'newness' of the baby. Older children (7-8) will better grasp the geographical distance and the emotional weight of the 'wait' described in the title.
Unlike many adoption books that focus on the baby's perspective or the parents' struggle, this is told from the sibling's point of view, making the monumental event feel accessible and relatable to a child.
The story follows a young boy and his parents as they prepare for and eventually travel to China to adopt a baby girl named May. It documents the packing, the long flights, the sights of a new country, and the pivotal moment at the hotel where the family is finally united. It concludes with the journey home and the beginning of their life together.
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