
A parent would reach for this book when their child is experiencing the confusion and heartache of a parent leaving the home, whether due to separation or abandonment. Through a series of thirty-four poignant poems, thirteen-year-old C.J. navigates the shifting landscape of his once-stable world. He watches his proud, hardworking father struggle with job loss and ultimately walk out the door, leaving the family to pick up the pieces. This is a story about the weight of silence and the strength found in those who stay. It is ideal for middle schoolers who need to see their complicated feelings of anger, love, and longing reflected in literature. Parents will appreciate how the book handles sensitive topics with grace, offering a realistic portrayal of resilience that does not rely on easy or forced resolutions.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals directly with parental abandonment and financial hardship. The approach is realistic and secular, focusing on the internal emotional life of the protagonist. The resolution is realistic rather than perfectly happy, emphasizing survival and family bonding over a magical reunion.
A 10 to 14 year old boy who is traditionally stoic but dealing with a major family transition. Specifically, a child who feels responsible for keeping their family together after a parent departs.
Parents should be prepared for the poem 'The Way a Door Closes,' which is emotionally raw. The book can be read cold, but it is best followed by a check-in about the child's own feelings of security. A parent might see their child withdrawing, acting out in anger, or expressing a sense of betrayal toward an absent adult.
Younger readers (10) may focus on the literal event of the father leaving, while older readers (13 to 14) will better grasp the nuance of the father's bruised ego and the socioeconomic pressures of job loss.
Unlike many books on divorce or separation, this focuses specifically on the 'vanishing' parent and the specific cultural pride of a Black family facing economic hardship, told through accessible but sophisticated verse.
The story follows C.J., a young teenager living in a loving African American household. After his father loses his job, the family dynamic shifts from joyful stability to quiet tension. The narrative culminates in the father leaving the family, leaving C.J. and his siblings to navigate the emotional fallout of abandonment while leaning on their mother and each other.
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