
Reach for this book when your teenager is struggling to connect with a parent's past or when your family is navigating the complex ripple effects of inherited trauma. This moving story follows Zara, a contemporary American teen, and her mother, Nadja, who survived the Bosnian War. After a local tragedy triggers buried memories, the narrative splits between Zara's search for answers and Nadja's harrowing survival as a young woman in Sarajevo. It is a profound exploration of how silence can create distance between generations and how sharing our darkest stories can lead to healing. Given the heavy themes of war and recovery, it is most appropriate for mature readers aged 14 and up who are ready to engage with realistic depictions of history and resilience.
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Sign in to write a reviewCharacters face life-threatening situations in both the past and present.
Focuses on the ethnic cleansing and religious persecution during the Bosnian War.
The book deals directly with the horrors of war, including ethnic cleansing, starvation, and grief. The approach is starkly realistic but framed through the lens of a daughter seeking empathy. The resolution is hopeful and focuses on the power of truth-telling as a form of secular healing.
A high schooler who feels a 'wall' between themselves and an immigrant parent. It is perfect for the teen who enjoys historical fiction but wants to see how that history impacts the modern world.
Parents should be aware of the graphic descriptions of the Siege of Sarajevo. It is helpful to have a basic understanding of the Bosnian conflict to help the teen navigate the political context. A parent might notice their child becoming frustrated by a grandparent's or parent's refusal to talk about their origins, or a teen expressing 'secondary' trauma after hearing about global conflicts.
Younger teens (14) will focus on Zara's detective-like quest for her family's past, while older teens (17-18) will likely resonate more with the nuanced portrayal of Nadja's trauma and the complexities of forgiveness.
Unlike many war novels, this bridges the gap between historical and contemporary fiction, showing that war doesn't end when the treaties are signed: it lives on in the kitchen and the living room.
The story alternates between two timelines: present-day Rhode Island, where Zara and her mother Nadja are injured in a terrorist bombing, and 1992 Sarajevo, following a young Nadja during the Bosnian War. As Zara heals physically, she realizes her mother is suffering from deep-seated PTSD. Zara embarks on a journey to understand her mother's history, eventually traveling to Europe to piece together the life Nadja left behind.
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