We Chose You

Reach for this book when your child starts asking questions about their origins or expresses a need to feel secure in their place within your family. It is particularly healing for children who have joined a family through adoption or foster care and may be grappling with feelings of being different or 'left behind.' This story uses a warm, faith based perspective to explain that every child is a deliberate choice and a blessing from God. Written by Tony and Lauren Dungy, the book follows a young boy named Calvin who learns about the beautiful way his family came together. It frames adoption not as a backup plan, but as a purposeful act of love. Ideal for children ages 4 to 8, this book provides a gentle, reassuring framework for discussing identity, belonging, and the spiritual belief that every child is exactly where they are meant to be. It is a comforting choice for bedtime or quiet conversation, reinforcing that your child was chosen with joy.